I heard the writer Ray Loriga once idealized our friends. His image was very curious: let's put the liquid of our devotion into a container for what we need. It's a container for our content. And in that sense, in all loving relationships, and also in friendship, we once say: it has failed me. But we are really the ones who create hope and put it in the packaging. We are the ones who put in the others a series of crazy dreams, but they are not to blame, they are not the King of Norway. Unless others are so misleading to convince us that they are different. But the innocent creatures that go down the street and decide to love, that we decide to love as friends or as partners, are not guilty, are innocent, and never promised to be the perfect object of our devotion. Loriga is clear: perhaps it is the origin of almost all the personal conflicts we have in our relations. It's better to try to accept people as they are and not lock them into an excessive projection. But how do we do it if we don't accept ourselves as it is?
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