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Other claim

That's what I said. A new claim has been received at the hospital. A more hanging piece of cork. Due to the problem of the pandemic, we have banned couples from accessing ultrasound scans of pregnancy and a father writes to denounce this injustice.

I have been drawn to the account and, almost to forget the reason for the complaint, I have focused on the words that the man has chosen to explain his request. The letter says that “leaving women alone and defenceless” is not legitimate. I do not know, it is I who said the matter, but I have taken some suspicious hint of the speech. Disney Accent or. I have kept reading hopefully awaiting the shocking twist plot, but at the end of the writing I felt a raw milk that is about to start to boil. It is true that he was already heated earlier by an chio written by an influencer gynecologist on Twitter: "I've had my first birth on the phone. His father behaves like a hero. Quiet and quiet. She says she's taken her son out. Literally.” In addition, he pulls himself down and stays quiet. Not bad! Less so than two all-powerful saviors have fought the battle, which could hardly give birth to a woman she does not even mention. The child would hardly have left on his own had it not been for the feat of his father to take him out. Look, I'm up to the boobs of heroes. Above all, because they have good ways. The latter inevitably make me explode.

"Less bad than two all-powerful saviors have fought the battle, which could hardly give birth to a woman she doesn't even mention."

In any case, I do not intend to judge anyone, because it is not a question of who said what he said. The thing is, there's something wrong with the movie. I believe that they have shown us that weakness makes us appreciable, I believe that courage has shown them that they appreciate them. We like the helpless more, you are the wrestlers more.

A parenthesis, by the way: I'm writing from doubt. I'm not a sociology specialist. Not in anthropology. Not psychology. Not in philosophy. It is therefore not possible to give any valid information on human behaviour. I am very excited when those mainstream afternoon debates give some credibility to the barbarity that they give the floor and argue to those who do not know how to get obsessed with the informed decision to give birth at home. For there to be no doubt, therefore, I am only one member of the tertulia who takes the bucket off the fire and acts in a temperate way.

Perhaps, if the natural is the desire to enjoy and be appreciated. In short, we are a species that is born very fragile and whose survival is due to love. We protect our puppies because we want them. At the bottom, we're constantly interacting. Everything is attachment. And perhaps the mutual protection of connection is also natural. On the contrary, what is not normal is the way we seek and build that protection in heterosexual relations. Because protection has nothing to do with heroism. So I say that in addition to the warlike way in romantic stories, protection has a different shape. If it is a matter of protection. There is sovereignty. There is respect. There is complicity. There is freedom. There is responsibility. There's confidence. There is appreciation.

I, like the father who wrote the complaint, believe that it is also a matter of pregnancy. And that's why I want you, in addition to the ultrasounds, to go with other appointments. But I don't need a bodyguard. I don't need a spokesperson. I don't need heroes. I don't need anyone to decide for my interest. I must not break your way in front of me. I love you next to you. No judgment. Present. Attention. Honey.

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