The current "ars amandi", that is, making a bird
A friend told me it's better to think about something else. It would be better if it were original and for once you wrote about nice things. Maybe my friend is right. I have really tried to follow my advice, but I have not been able to resist the temptation. I'm sorry, but, even if it's just to get rid of rabies, I have no choice but to tell you what happened a few months ago in the consultation.
I found her on the other side of the table, trying to nail the sixteen-year-old girl, nervous. He asked him why he was going to come and threw him without breathing almost immediately. “I have tried to fuck with my boyfriend several times, but I don’t get in. He told me that he already wanted to go and I don't know why I can't. I want to know if everything is normal.” You don't know where to start. I could not imagine whether the demand for nervous hands was as evident as the image or not as an example of social imposition for sexual intercourse; an example of burden that could question the normality of one's own body.
I instantly became angry. I get angry every time women are said to have nothing but a dark, miraculous cave, which is a source of pleasure in affective-sexual relationships. Or when any kind of abuse by sex is justified on the pretext of a need inevitably met by another. I get angry every time the success of heterosexual intercourse is measured by the ejaculation of man. Or when the lack of success is attributed to the triviality of the couple.
It's really worrying to think that a satisfying heterosexual relationship is equal to the flirty. Perhaps we should go to Freud to ask him for an account, as he said that orgasm obtained by clitoral stimulation is immature as that obtained by vaginal stimulation (if you can). And so, in this absurd false dichotomy, some have rejected the clitoris as a secondary organ associated with the age of children's games. That's why we have to make love on our skin, as in movies, as soon as we can; the ikurrina of maturity to show it proud to our friends.
I fear that in this century of presumed explicit sex there is not much implicit censorship. Maybe it's my imagination, I don't know, but sometimes I have the suspicion that, under the display of naked meat, truthfulness remains hidden.
No wonder there is a colleague's account that I remember when I get angry: I ask a couple who were over seventy years old if they had sex and the refusal of one another answers: “What are we unrelated to? Don’t we pamper ourselves?”
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