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On Monday, I started taking care of my 21-month-old daughter in my house. We've decided it's better, for now and as long as we can, not to take it to school. After studying it well, we thought that the best thing for him is to offer him the ratio of attention he needs at home at that age: a child, an adult.
Happiness. Recently, a colleague confessed to us that he hated the phrase “I want my children to be happy”, but that somehow he wanted it.
According to many psychologists, for people to grow up healthy they need an empathic and strong bond with their reference
caregivers.
According to many psychologists, for people to grow up healthy they need an empathic and strong link with their reference caregivers (Doors, P.). These caregivers, helping their child to progressively decipher their vague, dark, and primary sensations, will turn them into an identifying feeling. They will be able to name them. That's where we get to draw our identity. As we feel conscious, our trunk of identity gets stronger. This process occurs mainly in the early years of the child (Cristóbal, R.). If performed correctly, these people will be beings living in connection and balance with their interior and with the reality around them. “Empowered” people (Gates, P.) to cope with the bitter events of life. And on the other hand, having that psychic skeleton, the affectivity and love that we receive throughout our lives are vitamins for the soul.
An investigation. A study has come to my hand these days confirming one aspect of the previous approach. And the truth is that I was astonished by both the conclusions and the characteristics of the research. At Harvard, they've been studying the subject of happiness for 75 years without a break. The research question is what makes us healthy and happy. The psychiatrist Robert Waldinger runs this extensive study. The main conclusion is that good relationships make us happier and healthier. Good relations, I underline that. Here you can watch the video: http://bit.ly/1noD39E.
Following the main conclusion of the research, and as I am close to home with my daughter, I feel that I have come to care for, clean and renew quality relationships. I hope you do well. On the one hand, and unfortunately, in recent years I have been drawn to some relations. How hard this is! On the other hand, in this phase where I am at home, out of professional location, I have noticed that you fall out of the lists of many members of the previous phases. Forget you. It is not something that is done with bad intent, but it is. This can also be painful. It's time to care for good relationships and to make new ones.
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