A sunny day ago and in the town square there is a group of friends talking to each other. Some are laughing out loud, and others, on the other hand, are figuring out how to place themselves. One of them, with a clumsy gesture, wants to approach the other, but has not succeeded. The friend is in other matters and has been looking to the ground to see that she does not get her attention.

One person has approached the one who's looking at the ground, and he's been slightly injured. He put a hand on his shoulder and said, “How about friends? What are you working on?” he asked. “Give me a kiss, honey,” he adds. He who looks at the ground has responded with a “no”. The other members of the group have once again become nervous about the situation. One has been reflected in the state of the other, but it has remained silent; they are so normal that the only answer left to him was to look at the other ice cream. The newcomer raises his voice and, “Listen! "Give me a kiss!" has received the answer "No! ". He grabbed the strongest arm and managed to kiss the person who was looking at the ground with a point of anxiety. Meanwhile, the one in his arms tries to untie himself by shaking his whole body. In the end he got it and walked away crying.

– What do you think about this situation?

To the first words I will add a small explanation: the group of friends gathered in the plaza are children from 3 to 5 years old. The one who has approached you to ask for a kiss is your aunt, your grandfather, or a family friend.

“And now, how do we position ourselves?

Such situations often occur in the streets and houses of our people. A person in the family area is approaching and, without permission, is going to steal the kiss from the girl. The child, on many occasions, does not want to give that kiss, but, in most cases, receives it against his will. What she takes in her arms is bigger, she's stronger. Adults look at their desires with a new respect, as if they were on another plane, and, despite the refusal, there go their big arms and their wet lips. Sometimes the child dares to say “no”, among the complaints and explanations surrounding him: “Excuse me, today it’s wrong.” In some cases, the child is nervous and says nothing of embarrassment or despair.
Crucially, I see the satisfaction of the will of some people who have more strength and power, an action that has little to do with love or affection. Yes, we want the word “no” to be respected in the face of kisses and others.