Machista violence of passivity
My mother is a mistreated, or rather, empowered woman in the process of empowerment. Statistically, only a percentage is opposed to this picture, and it's one of those tissues. He has gone through eleven psychologists and everyone, unanimously, said that what he was suffering from was a mistreatment of manuals. However, those around him have never seen a moratorium adjoining his eyes. We haven't noticed any bitter woman in appearance. I would even say that what he has shown has been the opposite, despite having his interior shattered into a thousand pieces.
I have said that the machine has been in the hands of many psychologists, and, of course, so many others have been lawyers. With them, however, he did not succeed. He has been legally divorced for almost twenty years but without separating himself from the husband who took his life. First there were the negotiations, then there were the complaints and the trials, and then it was the most unfair in the dessert sentences. Again, the revictimization of the manuals.
The mother already had little faith in the justice system, and although the pain was the same, she was not disappointed. That's why the mother has always believed in activism, and that's been her way of denouncing injustices forever. So far. That is, until society has turned its back on it as well. I would say that my mother was born a feminist, and paradoxically, she was caught in the networks of a batting psychopath. She's still a heart-feminist, but she's stopped behind the feminist flag, because the moment she's needed it most, she's been left on the margin. To the excesses of his main executioner "No!" For example, he wrote to the local press, without naming, without insulting or mocking, but denouncing it with respect. Camouflaged among nice excuses, he had to settle for a "Sorry, but we can't publish it." He also knocked on the doors of the City Hall, asking him that whenever the name of this kind appeared in some matter a red light would be lit and illuminated, remembering that behind there was mistreatment and that the victim was the right one. He sent the notice to all departments, Social Services, Municipal Police, Income and Tax Collection, Urbanism, Works and Services, as well as to Coexistence and Equality, to be given special attention in the case. Once again, the response of technicians and politicians: 0.
This is not a revictimization by structural machismo. This has been the response of a society full of hypocrisy. We're told that we have to learn to see micromachismos with Maggola, those who are blind to what you see without magnifying glass. There is still a long way to go.
They have chosen to take a passive attitude towards a woman who is empowering. I don't know what's behind this: fear, indifference, machist inertia. At least feminism. Cheap words and expensive actions. Many times I thought that if my mother had committed suicide or had the murder appeared, society would give another answer. Protected response after a banner, after a few words. But words are carried by the wind.
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