Soon the giant conical trees, the threaded cables of the streetlights, the bright letters of the building that wish us happiness will be removed. The Christmas lights melt like ice stalactites in the January sun, serene and silent. Soon Carmen will arrive. And I could say, "Thank you for the Christmas that's gone," heavy sister-in-law, lobbyists, angled words, laziness felt, boring nuclear families that dig deeper into gender roles. I could have said that, as I said and sang throughout December. But Grintxa is also bored to be Grintx and, above all, bored to claim that he is clearer, more coherent, more militant, more modern – after all, better – than his family members.

Because I've realized that in the last few years, I've blended critical being with family attitudes and despising it, and I think I'm not the only one. And it smells like classism, while my relatives have been judged through the trench heads of croquettes and prawns, I, who am a member of the first generation of the family, along with my cousins, with higher education.

One may not be interested in Basque culture at all, and another is not interested in seeing and believing the news of Antena 3, or that the other is a Christian practitioner and that his partner has not yet divorced for not breaking the image of the perfect life, and, of course, the one there has bought the boy a ball and a doll from the girl also in your house. PRESIDENT. — The next item is the report (Doc. But look beyond, one is able to cook food for twenty with a limited budget, like no one, and feminism and class consciousness may be more internalized than you in many ways, and you're surprised when he tells you how he escaped from home when he was young, or what happened the other to get out of the alcohol hole, and the other pays the attention that kids need and plays with them all day long, with the ball and the wrist.

I do not want to apologize for the family unit and for the lack of criticity. The family is a small sample of the world around a table, and of course it's oppressive in many ways, and in most cases traditional. But I've been tired of criticizing stereotypes, and if I criticize them, I want to know where I look at them, and what values I extol and contempt without realizing.