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INPRIMATU
Personality
Nagore González 2023ko urriaren 09a

The costume has become part of leisure today. The festive activity of many peoples is to be the character we want. In that moment, when we're inside the character, we can be others.

I think something like this happens in life. We're not the same person in every group. I don't work the same with friends, family or work. I've often wondered why that happens. Maybe because we match the role or label set. That is, if in the group of friends we are told that we are “clowns”, then we act like this.

So I think the question is, why don't we act the same in all the groups around us? Is it possible not to have freedom to be oneself?

Why don't we act the same in all groups around us? Is it possible not to have freedom to be oneself?

It's possible that from a young age we're constantly communicating that we have to do what others do to not be different. In short, that's not that rare, we're human beings, and we need relationships to live together. So we all like to feel inside the group, to be accepted in the background.

Maybe, if we don't dare to be ourselves, there's also a lack of self-esteem.

You know how many characters we can have inside a person.

In any case, in order to be with others, should we cease to be us? So what about each other's personality? And even more, where is the border between the person and the character?

Knowing and accepting ourselves is not a challenge, let alone a challenge. If you get it, it's like removing a heavy backpack from your back. It may be something that you get with age. I believe that the greatest freedom is to be oneself. That is the success of life.

Nagore González